Maya Darasaw, the owner of MAD Words Photography has teamed up with Candyce Jones, owner of Anchored Consulting & Events, and TaKeyia Monique, the owner of Haute Hipsters Media, to create social change through photography by developing a social media campaign to bring awareness to prostate cancer. On November 1st, #30ShadesofBlue will launch and honor those that are or have been impacted by prostate cancer. Each day in November, a picture will be posted along with a story and/or an inspiring message, that will educate and encourage others about prostate cancer. The goal is to encourage men young and older to get regular screenings and build a social community that supports and educates each other. To follow the campaign visit the blog each day or follow MAD Works Photography on its various social media platforms. @MADWorksPhoto on Instagram & Twitter, MAD Works Photography on Facebook.
MADWorks Photography presents #30ShadesOfBlue Prostate Cancer Awareness from Candyce Jones on Vimeo.
My dad has a way with talking to me. He's very intentional in his delivery. Sometimes, I have to warn him to get straight to it, because my heart drops if it takes him too long to say what he attempts to say to me. Sometimes, it's just about my taxes... other times it's about life, and how it throws you curveballs. I remember the day explicitly when my father said... "you recall your granddad had prostate cancer and beat it right?" Ummmmm.... where is this going dad? Well, my dad said he had prostate cancer and was not the slightest bit concerned... or at least that's what his demeanor told me. I, on the other hand, was devastated, heartbroken. At 30-something, I'm still daddy's princess, and no princess wants to hear bad news about their King. "What are you talking about... you have what?"
Fortunately, my father attacked this evil beast and I thank God for him and my family every day!!! It's getting to the doctor early, and fairly often just to make sure everything is checking out. You are not too young or too old to be exempt.
Please tag along with me another 30 days as my team and I drop some #ProstateCancer facts, as we honor those who've survived and grow their beards for a purpose! #30ShadesOfBlue #ProstateCancerAwareness #NoShaveNovember
According to the non-profit, Zero Prostate Cancer, there are currently 2.9 million men living with prostate cancer - roughly equal to the population of Chicago. Please do your part, visit your doctor for a physical. Early detection is key.Thank you to our model, Matthew, for supporting #NoShaveNovember and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
Did you know, 1 in 6 men will be diagnosed with prostate cancer in their lifetime? Prostate cancer is highly curable, if detected early. Make sure the men in your life are taking their health seriously and visiting their physician regularly. Thank you to our model, David, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
True or False: Prostate cancer is an old man’s disease? FALSE, while it may be true that the older you are, the more likely you are to be diagnosed with prostate cancer, the fact remains that more than 76,000 men each year, are diagnosed at an earlier age. Although only 1 in 10,000 men under age 40 will be diagnosed, the rate skyrockets up to 1 in 38 for ages 40 to 59, and 1 in 15 for ages 60 to 69.” - Prostate Cancer Foundation Thank you to our model, Ranith, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
According to the American Cancer Society, there will be an estimated 180,890 new prostate cancer cases in 2016. But there's good news, the 5 and 10 year survival rate respectively is 99% and 98%. So get checked, have the conversation with your loved ones! Early detection saves lives!Thank you to our model, @0nly0ne0 for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
Fact? or Myth? "If you don't have any symptoms, you don't have prostate cancer." MYTH! Prostate cancer is one of the most asymptomatic cancers in oncology, meaning not all men experience symptoms. Many times symptoms can be attributed to something else. Signs of prostate cancer are often first detected by a doctor using a routine check-up. - Prostate Cancer Foundation
Thank you to our model, Fatin, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
Although 1 in 6 men will be diagnosed with prostate cancer in their lifetime, it is highly curable if detected early.Thank you to our model, Willis, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
Fact or Fiction? “The PSA test is cancer test.” FICTION! The PSA tests measures levels of prostate-specific antigen in the prostate, not cancer. Think of it as a first alert smoke alarm, instead of a fire alarm. The PSA test is the first step in the diagnostic process for cancer. It has made detection of cancer in its early stages, when it is best treated, possible. Experts believe the PSA test saves the life of approximately 1 in 39 men who are tested. – Prostate Cancer Foundation Thank you to our model, Jourdan Davis for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
Men with a single first-degree relative—father, brother or son—with a history of prostate cancer are twice as likely to develop the disease, while those with two or more relatives are nearly four times as likely to be diagnosed. The risk is highest in men whose family members were diagnosed before age 65. It’s imperative to notify your doctor of your family history. Thank you to our model, Rafael, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
I am a prostate cancer survivor, having been exposed to Agent Orange in 1971, while serving in the US Army in Vietnam. As a FITNESS enthusiast....I was devastated by just hearing the word, cancer! Early detection, however, was the key to my complete recovery! I urge you to get your annual physical exams! You have a responsibility to your loved ones! Early detection and a positive attitude will help you win! Upon receiving the news, I went to the gym and continued to train throughout treatment! What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger! - Harold, St. Louis, MO
Thank you to our model, Harold, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
African American men are hit hardest by prostate cancer. They are diagnosed at a 60% higher rate than caucasian men. Thank you to our model, Sammy, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
Men often don't get the help they need when they need it because they're afraid to speak up about prostate cancer. Organizations like www.menwhospeakup.com are helping to raise awareness about advanced prostate cancer and encouraging men to speak up and be an advocate for their own health. Thank you to our model, Eiad, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
Although the causes of prostate cancer are not yet completely understood, researchers have found several factors that increase the risk of developing the disease. High-fat diets have been linked to prostate cancer, eating a diet that is low in saturated fat and red meats and high in fruits, vegetables, and whole-grain foods may help reduce a man’s risk for developing the disease. - American Cancer SocietyThank you to our model, Joshua, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
When it comes to prostate cancer, there are many treatments available. One approach does not fit all. Patients need to understand the complexity of this disease and make treatment decisions that are right for them in consultation with a trusted medical professional.Thank you to our model, Christian for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
"It's important for men to get checked for prostate cancer. Some could have it and don't even know. For males in general it's a thing we are scared to do or feel a little uncomfortable with because of the routine of hows it's check but it's needed. Your family and loved ones will appreciate it because you could possibly live a longer healthier life with them." -Wade, Annapolis, MD
Access to screening is critical and the cost of the screening shouldn't be a burden on anyone. Zero Prostate Cancer has compiled a national database of prostate cancer screening sites all over the country. These sites provide free and low-cost prostate cancer testing throughout the year. Visit zerocancer.org/test-centersThank you to our model, Omar, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
Should you be screened? It is a personal and complex decision. Men over 40 should discuss PSA screening with their physicians to determine if and when PSA screening is right for them, based on health and family history factors.Thank you to our model, Sekou, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
Prostate cancer doesn’t manifest in the same way with everyone. In few men, it can be silent and in others it can show symptoms. However, due to lack of awareness, most men think this is an aging problem than taking cues to check for prostate cancer. – The Health SiteThank you to our model, Joseph, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
Prostate cancer is one disease men shy away from speaking about. Talking about it could save someone's life. Sharing stories about personal diagnoses or those of families and friends encourages others to make that visit to the doctor they have been putting off.Thank you to our model, Jason, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
"My father was diagnosed with prostate cancer about 6 years ago. It was a scary time, but by the grace of God he had surgery and it was gone. No need for chemotherapy at all. It just goes to show you that no matter what you're going through, God always provides. Maybe my fathers' situation happened to bring awareness to the disease to those whom may not have checked for it before." -Paapa, Bowie, MdThank you to our model, Paapa, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
Fact or Fiction? Prostate cancer doesn’t run in my family, so the odds aren’t great that I will get it. FICTION! While a family history of prostate cancer doubles a man’s odds of being diagnosed to 1 in 3, the fact remains that 1 out of 6 American men will be diagnosed with prostate cancer in their lifetime. This compares to 1 in 8 women who will be diagnosed with breast cancer. African-American men are 60% more likely to be diagnosed with prostate cancer and 2.4 times more likely to die as a result. – Prostate Cancer FoundationThank you to our model, Cedric #BeardOBlack for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
According to the American Cancer Society, African American men have the highest documented prostate cancer incidence rate in the WORLD. In the U.S., the prostate cancer death rate for African American men is more than twice the rate for white men. It's imperative you take your health seriously.Thank you to our model, Demont for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
How curable is prostate cancer? As with all cancers, “cure” rates for prostate cancer describe the percentage of patients likely remaining disease-free for a specific time. In general, the earlier the cancer is caught, the more likely it is for the patient to remain disease-free. Because approximately 90% of all prostate cancers are detected in the local and regional stages, the cure rate for prostate cancer is very high—nearly 100% of men diagnosed at this stage will be disease-free after five years.Thank you to our model, Jason, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
Did you know? Prostate cancer is the second leading cause of cancer-related deaths in the U.S. and more than 26,000 American men will die from the disease just this year alone, according to the American Cancer Society.Thank you to our model, Kerry for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
"I never saw it coming! After dealing with cancer 4 times with my mother, now my Pops has to fight this disease. I was just DONE! Done with cancer, God, everything! But like she fought, he would fight and like she won, he would win too. I come from survivors and through every encounter with this disease, my Father's faith NEVER wavered! He never doubts God, he NEVER flinches in adversity. Pop's is a real one and his victory over prostate cancer, not only educated me on the disease but reminded me that God is the one thing I MUST rely on!" -Eddie, Bowie, MDThank you to our model, Eddie, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
It's no secret men, especially African American men do not like to talk about prostate cancer. Let this campaign be the day we break that tradition. Knowledge is power and sharing stories and information can help others be an advocate for their own healthThank you to our model, Raheem, for supporting #30ShadesOfBlue and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
61 days later and you've been informed, inspired, advised, and instructed on the importance of women and mens health. We hope you feel the necessity to take your health seriously through not only our #30ShadesOfBlue prostate cancer awareness campaign, but with our #31ShadesOfPInk highlighting breast cancer awareness. We are our brothers and sisters keepers. Let's stay woke on our Health.
A special thank you to this campaigns team. @Fvartistry @Christinmua for accenting our models features ;-) and @wadethebarber for being the in-house barber and model! ;-) Y'all are so talented. What a dream team.
A huge shout out to @TheDMVs_ACE for EVERYTHING. You are such a blessing to work with. Thank you to my sister @KerilHenderson for making sure all of our men looked neat and stylish and @HauteHipstersMedia for everything pr. You ladies are so appreciated.
Thank you to our #30ShadesOfBlue models for your support and encouraging other men to take their health seriously!
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Maya Darasaw, the owner of MAD Words Photography has teamed up with Candyce Jones, owner of Anchored Consulting & Events, and TaKeyia Monique, the owner of Haute Hipsters Media, to create social change through photography by developing a social media campaign to bring awareness to breast cancer. On October 1st, #31ShadesofPink will launch and honor those that are or have been impacted by breast cancer. Each day in October, a picture will be posted along with a story and/or an inspiring message, that will educate and encourage others about breast cancer. The goal is to encourage men and women to get regular screenings and build a social community that supports and educates each other. To follow the campaign visit the blog each day or follow MAD Works Photography on its various social media platforms. @MADWorksPhoto on Instagram & Twitter, MAD Works Photography on Facebook.
31 Shades of Pink, Breast Cancer Awareness from maya darasaw on Vimeo.
31 Shades of Pink, Breast Cancer Awareness
"Why, Lord? I don't need breast cancer to get my point (campaign) across." Those are the words, I uttered to myself as I sat in the back seat on my way home from getting a ultrasound biopsy. See, the day I planned to meet nearly 31 survivors and supporters, I decided to check myself in the shower, and felt a lump.... "50/50" is what the Doctor told me, as it was abnormal... I was paranoid, I convinced myself. I was about to hear their stories of triumph, but wasn't ready to bear the scars myself- of the uncertainty. I share this, because although my results were benign, most of these ladies didn't have that luck. I stand, camera in hand, in support of these ladies that fought courageously for their lives, and are here to share with you what gave them the strength and fight. As I am more aware of the uncertainties of my body and my life, I encourage you to not only be more aware, but be inspired. We, you and I, gather in the rings of life daily, give it your best shot! And, Fight Like A Girl! Love, Maya. #breastcancerawareness #31ShadesOfPink
Maya's Fight #31ShadesOfPink from maya darasaw on Vimeo.
I am a 2x breast cancer survivor, diagnosed February 1, 2013 and again six months later on August 23, 2013. I could always hear my father-in-law in my ear with his deep and soulful voice saying, "By Faith"! It was just that, that kept me going, Faith! Never be ashamed of the scars that life has left you with...A scar means the hurt is OVERthe wound is CLOSEDyou endured the pain and Godhas HEALD YOU.Peace and LoveChar
Cherish each moment, phone call, and experience because they can all become memories right before your eyes. I spent a lot of my time laying in bed and visiting my best friend, my mother before she lost her good fight. Mom never complained and was always helping others while sick and even until death. She was courageous and although she is gone her spirit will live on forever.
We had rescued a Chihuahua a few months earlier named Tia. I was watching tv one night when Tia sat on my shoulders and kept putting her paw in my nightgown. I pulled her paw away a few times and the last time I felt the lump. I was terrified. It took a month to get a surgery date and on Jan 2, 2015 I had a bilateral mastectomy. I had stage 3 cancer. I went through chemo and my daughters (25 and 21) were with me at every appointment. I lost all of my hair. I had to quit work but my family kept me occupied. My family never treated me like I was sick and I appreciated that. After chemo I had 7 weeks of radiation. I had to go every day. I drove myself and although I was tired I saw people at the hospital every day that had things worse than me. I always said I wanted a makeover and I guess God heard me, I've got new hair, new boobs and a new attitude!
I can’t recall a time when breast cancer wasn’t a part of my life. However, as I got older I became aware of just how prevalent it truly was. I come from strength. I watched the strength of a woman who has beaten breast cancer 4-times; I also watched the strength of a woman who no longer has to fight! Their STRENGTH and FAITH is why I will never give up on ANYTHING that God puts in my path. I am a Conqueror because I come from Conquerors. My Aunts are my Angels, on earth & in heaven.
I will be celebrating 24 years of being cancer free in December 2016. There have been a lot of ups and downs, but I have made it and I encourage women dealing with a breast cancer diagnosis to put their trust in God as I have done. I encourage them to live life to it's fullest and put themselves first. Don't regret the things that you wish you had done. If there is something you would like to do in life, do it! You have today and tomorrow is not promised, So ENJOY!!!!
No one ever expects to receive the news you have breast cancer, even though 1 out of 8 women get diagnosed each year. I thought I was too young, my mom never had it, just finished breastfeeding my first baby, etc. Unfortunately, I was diagnosed in my first trimester after my Nurse Practioner felt a lump in my breast. It later turned out to be a very early stage of breast cancer. So now I was 1 out of 3000 women who are diagnosed while pregnant. With the support of my husband and family I got through the shock of the cancer diagnosis and treatment. I learned I was strong enough to beat it because I had so many reasons to live. I may have a had cancer, but it did not have me. It's treatable and beatable! Now I volunteer with Susan G. Komen Maryland as a Breast Health Educator to help spread breast cancer awareness.
The saying, "...until that thing comes knocking on your door." Well it did, and that thing was cancer! I remember when my mom told me, right after my wedding. She had been diagnosed right before I got married, and didn't want to put anymore pressure or worry on me, so selfless of her. Well after my wedding she had the "BIG" surgery. And I tell you she handled it like Warrior...which is the reason I believe in my heart she is a "Survivor". Not only was she strong, she made everyone around her strong! You may say, how can something so bad create good? Not only did it make me stronger, it drew me and my mother closer, ummm like BFF close, LOL! My faith was made strong, I was able to process patience and understanding. To see ALL that my Mother went and still goes through, she is a living testimony of the passage in the Bible Job 13:15, "though He slay me YET will I trust him!"
The title of my story is "12 Surgeries Later And I'm Still Standing!" If you are battling breast cancer I will tell you to pray your way through as well as praise your way through. The hardest thing I ever have to do was to go through chemotherapy and radiation treatment. I had 7 sessions of chemo and 27 sessions of radiation treatment. I then had 12 surgeries in an effort to save my life from the mercer staff infection I caught. I had no choice to lean and depend on Jesus. My advice to anyone battling this disease is that you can get through anything with Christ Jesus, if you don't believe in him just try him once you wont be disappointed.
My advice to someone battling breast cancer is to get a strong support system--family, friends, church folks, someone or bodies that will be there for you throughout your fight. I was blessed and fortunate to have a wonderful husband and an awesome daughter and loads of friends, survivors and not that I could lean, cry and PRAY with. I found strength in lots of prayer, bible verses and a fight song, that you can sing or shout while you are going through. My song was 'Overcomer' by Mandisa. Every time I hear that song it reminds me where I was and what God has brought me through.
My experience with breast cancer was more so watching my loved ones go through it. In my twenties and early thirties I felt untouchable to certain things. I was shocked when I found out that one of my best friends Erica had not only gotten the disease but also quickly passed from it. It made me realize how important it is to catch it early. Making self check breast exams as well as seeing a specialist for screening crucial. I realize that breast cancer doesn't just target a specific group it targets all of us so we all have to be really careful about taking care of ourselves. I've also realize that there a lot of carcinogens in everyday things that are not being regulated. I am much more aware of even products I use on my skin, foods I eat, exercise, etc. We really have to be our own advocates and also demand that some of our regulations change so that our skin care creams aren't killing us. We have to make the best out of life to enjoy each moment we can share with family or loved ones. As much as this disease tries to rob us or our loved ones we have to support and enrich their lives. We have to stay strong and fight! I also am thankful that love is more powerful than any disease.
January of this year is when my story started. I was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer and soon later found out that I also have the BRAC1 gene. On August 5th 2016, I decided to have a bilateral mastectomy. There is so much more to this story but the point I want to make is this. Never once have I questioned, been angry or upset at God. In January I had asked God to use me as he saw fit. A week later I found out I had breast cancer. Because I have been very open, positive and accepting of the diagnosis I was asked to be one of the opening speeches for the "Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure" this year. I was awarded the "7 Woman of Ward 7 Women of Excellence Award" because of my work in the community. I started "Z for the T" which is Zumba for the TaTa's to help bring awareness and encourage regular screenings. God never gives a test that we will not pass without a A+ testimony. I thank him for choosing me to be one of the vessels that he is using for his purpose. I want everyone to know that there is life after trials. And the rewards are so sweet. Continue to walk in faith trusting with humility and thankfulness that you are apart of God's plan and you will get through with praise in your time of testing.
As a daughter of an amazing woman who lost her battle with cancer one short year ago the best encouragement I can share is to cherish every moment, from how they say your name, to their favorite song and even what their fondest memory of you is. Record their laugh, ask them a million questions, and lock in the memories while you have them. For those who are struggling with loss, put one foot in front of the other everyday and you'll push through to the new normal in due season!
When I found out that I had breast cancer I was scared and felt alone. As I started going to doctors appointments I realized I was entering into a special group. Not necessarily a group that woman are eager to join, but when a part of it, a group that you are grateful for. I ended up having so many woman that I could lean on for advice. I have since been able to be that person for others to turn to for help. Being open with the my diagnosis and talking to many people about it, I became more confident in myself. I have been through the lowest of lows so I know that I can get through pretty much anything. I know that I am stronger because I overcame cancer.
In June we gathered 31 breast cancer survivors, fighters and supporters together for a photoshoot that would bring awareness to the disease. Most of the participants were strangers yet they found commonalities in their experiences with this disease. Each day this month you've been getting to read about their experience with the disease as well as see their photograph of honor and triumph. Today we ask that you take a moment and listen to their voices as they share with you how breast cancer has impacted their life.
Day 15: #31ShadesOfPink Breast Cancer Awareness Campaign from Candyce Jones on Vimeo.
I was diagnosed in 2010 at the age of 26 with breast cancer which spread to my lymph nodes. I underwent 6 rounds of chemo, a lumpectomy, and 36 rounds of radiation. As I look back on the experience all I can think to immediately say is Jesus Christ is due all of the glory and honor. He was there with me every step of the way and he restored everything that was lost ten fold. I would tell anyone on this journey that sometimes what seems like the worst thing that can happen is the best thing that can happen. It was a difficult and trying experience but I'm better because of it. I appreciate every breath I take and I love the person that I am today. You don't realize how strong you are and what your are able to survive until your faith in Christ is tested. If you are on this journey know that God has a purpose, trust it!
The overwhelming support from family and friends has been my rock during the diagnosis, surgery, and chemotherapy. I don't hide the fact that I am a survivor of breast cancer, and as a male, though rare - we are at risk as well. I have learned that a positive attitude in everything is as, if not more important, then any treatment. Do things for You, and always share your smile
Going through any ordeal requires a lot of strength—physical, emotional, and mental. But going through cancer treatment your strength needs to be even stronger. Right before I found out I had breast cancer, my life during that time was so busy. I was a single mom, working full time, and starting my new career in the IT field. The news of cancer made my life come to an abrupt halt. My first journey with breast cancer started in February 2005. I was devastated, scared and numb when I found out I had cancer. These feelings resurfaced when I was diagnosed again this month. I will be undergoing surgery and treatments next month. During my cancer journeys, I’ve discovered how strong my faith is. As my physical appearance will change and days when I may not feel so well, I will be reassured by my family, friends and most important God that everything will be ok. I didn’t give in to cancer in 2005 and I will not give into it in 2016. I will continue to put whatever energy I have into learning more about this disease and what it will take to get through it, stay alive and staying as healthy as I can. After dealing with cancer, you just never know what the end of the road is going to be, and one thing I'm so thankful for is my family and friends. I don't focus my life on work anymore. My whole life has truly changed. I take time now to enjoy the little things I took for granted like waking up in the morning. Instead of thinking about materialistic things or work, now I hold on really tight and spend as much time as possible with my family and friends. My message to anyone who has been diagnosed with cancer is to never give up. Hold your head up high, every step of the way. I have received so much of my strength from the Lord. I attribute my strength to prayer, family and sticking to things I can control, and seeking help on things that are beyond my expertise. I’m a survivor so that I can help others who are going through this journey.
My mother is my heroe! She is a 4-time breast cancer survivor! She is one of the strongest women I know. Through her battle, I've learned how to completely and utterly rely on God. Psalms 55:22 says "Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken." Through my mother's breast cancer journey, I've learned to live by this scripture. My mother is a living example of how to walk by faith, live everyday intentionally and love the moments life gives you.
Eriel Paige, was the name I was born with but with all I've been through I'd like to say you can call me Superwoman. At the age of 33, I found a lump in my left breast. I was diagnosed with Stage II breast cancer in March 2015. After undergoing two surgeries, chemotherapy, and radiation, I'm cancer free and thank God for restoring my health. I'm thankful for my path as I can see from a clearer lens and am able to raise my two daughters ages 8 and 17 with a different outlook on life. I enjoy talking, encouraging, and inspiring other cancer fighters through their journey.
In June we gathered 31 breast cancer survivors, fighters and supporters together for a photoshoot that would bring awareness to the disease. Most of the participants were strangers yet they found commonalities in their experiences with this disease. Each day this month you've been able to read about #breastcancer experiences from various women and men. Today, we ask that you take a moment and listen to their voices as they share with you how breast cancer has impacted their lives.
#31ShadesOfPink from maya darasaw on Vimeo.
At the time of my mom's diagnosis we also received that my grandmother (the mother of my mom) was terminally ill with cancer. Little did we know was those were going to be her last few months on this earth. This news among the news of my mom's diagnosis was heart wrenching. I had to be there for my mom especially since her mother was not going to be able to. We made light of mom's new "boobies" to shade the fear of the surgery and the prognosis. Prayer calmed the nerves, anxiety, and fear. We leaned on God as He was the only one who had this plan in store for our family. My dad was especially supportive of my mom. He was patient when frustration and anger lurked into her when she would scream "why me"... All I felt that I was able to do was pray and be there for my mom. I stayed overnight with her the night of her surgery and stayed awake most of the night to make sure I was ready if she needed anything. My mom was in excruciating pain and often she would cry for her mom who was no longer with us. I know my presence was appreciated but it did not take away the hurt or pain that my mom was feeling.It is situations and road blocks in life such as this that make each and every hug I give my mom a little more special.
I have never had breast cancer but I have encountered quite of few people that have. I have learned that they live each day to the fullest. They don't take anything for granted. Most importantly, they continue to fight the good fight in hope of an eventual cure. If each person in this world had half the courage and will power as breast cancer patients and survivors, this world would be a better place. I admire them and thank them for setting an example for others to follow.
When diagnosed unexpectedly at 35 years old, as a African American women, the thoughts of this disease personally affecting me was really so far from my world, so far from my reality. I didn't hear the words, "I'm sorry, it's cancer", I heard the word, "I'm sorry, your going to die". That was my initial thought process that shortly after the blow, would be the very ammunition that drove me to fight, to survive. Failure for me had never been an option in any other area of my life, so the will, strength, commitment and drive to fight thru this battle would be no different. I was honest with my fears, and faced them. I openly talked through what I was feeling. I was transparent about the needed support that my family and village provided for me and I got educated on how to go about my treatment intelligently. Most important, I allowed myself to be human and work though every emotion that presented itself. I don't know if this experience made me stronger, rather than released the inner strength that we all possess to get us through difficult times as such; you just gotta tap into it and let it do it thing! :-) So what would my advice be to others? FAITH and GOD 1st, listen to yourself and go with what your gut is telling you. FIGHT and be your biggest ADVOCATE! and don't look back! EVER!....#31ShadesOfPink
The most difficult time was waiting to know if it was cancer, once it was confirmed my mind and spirit became a warrior. My focus was to win this battle. Prayer, laughter, and believing became my fortress. Everyone's journey is different do not try to conform to what everyone tells you. Find your strength, your center, and fight your fight! Be blessed.
Being diagnosed with cancer was tough for me, but I’ve realized that it was not just tough for me, but for my family also. In going through, I learned that allowing my family and friends to assist me, helped them to feel needed as they too were going through and wanted/needed to help. Having gone through I learned so much, my faith has truly been strengthen, my family is closer and believe it or not, I’m not “Super Woman”, but I’ve got a Super God, who never left me! I’ve learned the true meaning of Proverbs 3:5 “Trust in the Lord with ALL thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding” for He’s got me!
I am a physician and routinely take care of late stage breast cancer patients in the hospital or patients with breast cancer who experience complications to their disease or treatment. The strength that is exhibited by many of my patients is truly inspiring and motivating. Breast cancer is far too common and at times deadly. I've seen patients confront it head on and most with a positive attitude. I would encourage all women to get tested regularly at the appropriate age, as it is curable if caught at an early stage.
I am a 4-time survivor. I never thought I would survive the first time I was told I had breast cancer, much less three more times, but I did. My faith has grown stronger each time is was diagnosed, and I know there is nothing too big for my God. Proverbs 3:5 says "trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding." This scripture has kept me going many dark and painful days. And I've learned to let my family and friends help me. I'm not in this fight alone. And I will never give up. NO MATTER WHAT!
I was diagnosed in 1993. By doing self exams, I found the lump in my breast. I then made appointment to see my internal medicine doctor. Once I found it was cancer I followed his direction, saw a surgeon, scheduled a biopsy. Once I had results, scheduling of treatment was initiated. I had chemotherapy for 6 months to one year, however half way through the chemo, I had radiation for as well. All who participated in my treatment, were very family orientated, which was wonderful. I had family and friends who were there for me, I must say, I was so BLESSED. I have so much to say about my survival and all that took part in my healing. God, family and friends and those that supported my family in turn supported me. My daughter was at work when she found out that it was the big "C". She immediately created a network of people who allowed me to call them if I had any questions or concerns, or if I had crying spells or was feeling sorry for myself. People are amazing, there are some that are waiting to help a person in need, so if you are feeling low, lonely or need someone to talk to, other than family or close friend, remember there are people that you wouldn't expect just waiting to be listen or lend support. Also remember that, GOD is always available.
"(S)he believed (s)he could, so (s)he did.""She believed she could, so she did." Here are the #breastcancer survivors of the 2016 #31ShadesOfPink Campaign. Tag a fighter/survivor!
No one should fight this disease alone! Here are the faces of the supporters, current fighters and survivors of the 2016 #31ShadesOfPink Campaign. They are mothers, sisters, daughter, aunts, nieces, best friends, doctors and prayer warriors of a fighter/survivor! They are strength, love, faithful, determined, resilient and even husbands, sons and fathers.
We are so honored to be able to tell their stories through imagery and testimonies. We hope that you have either done at least one or all of these things: a. Continued to fight for your life b. Scheduled a mammogram c. tell someone you love them and assisted them if they need a ride or shoulder while they are in treatment c. and shared this campaign with your family and friends who might need encouragement.
Tag someone that is a supporter and someone that is a survivor,
Tag someone that stands with you in the fight against #breastcancer.
To hear their stories, visit the #31ShadesOfPink Breast Cancer Awareness Campaign's blog: http://bit.ly/2dtwJxL
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